So since it was doing me like that, I needed to talk to someone to find out when was safe and unsafe for me and there was no better person than a sisi that was in the game regularly to give me the information I needed. Especially as google was not our well known friend that year.
The chikala I asked told me, 7 days before and 7 days after menstruation were my protected days. I struggled somuch in my heart and I could not ask my friends in school then before they will judge me like I'm not a girl with hormones.🙄
It came to mind to visit Cee that period. She wasn't a perfect girl, she even slept with a few married men to keep up with her bills (life hard sha), but she was real. To my utmost surprise, she gave me the warning of my life and told me outrightly that she will unfriend me if I do it. Cee reminded me of my values and the fact that it wasn't worth it. She talked sense into my head that night in such a way that when I left her house the next morning, my hormones received enough sense for another few months.
Do you have a friend like Cee who will tell you as it is even when she has an opportunity to get you into the game she's into?
Are you a friend like Cee who has made wrong choices or perhaps, circumstances have made you make wrong choices, but you're willing to tell the truth to the other person who wants to get into what you know is wrong?
Would you want people to feel the pain you feel/felt from the wrong choices you made or would you prefer to tell them as it is and dissuade them from making some/same mistakes you made?
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Search yourself today. Be a friend like/better than Cee, and this world would be a more habitable place.
By the way, Christmas is loading.💃🏽💃🏽 This is an intentional message.😊
My Thoughts
Ala O. Wilcox
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