Saturday, 8 June 2019
Emergency Soup
I was wondering why I still had soup in my plate when my eba finished. I guess it was because I wanted to finish the remaining garri in the bowl, but I remembered I'm trying to fight big tummy.🤦♀️ I just jejely licked the remaining soup.
This soup was sweeter than I imagined, and to think that I was making shakara to eat it since I got back home this afternoon.
By the way, this soup is my mum's emergency soup. Yesterday when I got back home, she said, "Onyeka I made Egusi soup with plenty of stock fish. Dried fish is finished and there is no leaf inside it." Me, the girl that loves plenty orishirishi inside my soup said she should not worry.
Today as I got back, I had plans for convocation rice and was keeping my humble belly for it, only for rain to step in and laziness followed afterward. I kukuma memove* wakar (outing) cloth and wear house cloth to swallow eba because, house jollof rice is not party jollof and if it's not party jollof today, we do swallow✌😁😉.
As I baked the eba and courteously left a little in the bowl, my mind was still wanting me to swallow more. That's the only reason me of all people will remain sweet soup.
Usually, we only see very organised and good looking food on the internet, even those of us that are not into catering. So just before I finished my mother's sweet emergency egusi soup that is sweeter than most of those well packaged soup on the internet, I decided to take a picture of my semi empty plate that is unmatched and not in a tray. I decided to take it to let you know that its okay to be yourself. It's okay to display the imperfect because you are not perfect.
Our mothers made and still make special and sumptuous delicacies with what they have in the house without breaking a bank and we grew up enjoying it, but just because we saw someone in a Chinese restaurant taking a pic of food they might not have even paid for with their money, we feel ashamed to show that we blow* eba with soup that has no meat in it😂.
My dear social media people, be yourself o! Don't let all this perfections you see online choke you to your end.
Enuf said! Let me go and stretch my leg and sleep well so that the food will enter everywhere in my body (according to my little cousin).🤣🤣🤣🤣
I sha used roasted fish to eat laslas😋.
Ala O. Wilcox
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Friday, 7 June 2019
Na By Force?!
When I posted this picture yesterday on my WhatsApp status, everyone was asking me if I wanted to do a makeover, and when I said no, they are like, "why are you showing us your pimples and scattered hair?"
Imami!! (it is supposed to be akwa ibom language of 'My God!' but sha, I don't know if I got it😄).
Back to my story; I don't get why I would always be expected to bring my best foot in front on social media, giving me the headache of always looking perfect. Meanwhile, the imperfection I'm dealing with is very plenty.🤦♀️
My dear social media people, you are not perfect and you know it. You don't have it all together and you know it. You don't know it all and you know it. So why pretend you do?
Many people that pretend they do are the ones who even go through the worst kind of depression. Be yourself and allow God do the workings He needs to do in your life. When you act like you have it all together, you tell Him indirectly that you don't need Him and you tell those who can help you out there that you don't need them too.
Please and please, don't allow social media drown you.
As for me, I need all the help I can get and I'm not the perfect girl. I'm just the girl who has courage to face the storms as they come and still have the goofy face that makes people think all is well all the time. Its Gods grace that even gives me that strength. Without Jesus, I'm just a smashed moimoi in my heart😂😂.
Oya, I have tried for today. Have a beautiful weekend ahead🤗🤗.
By the way, on this blog, I'm over. No time to pretend😉.
Ala O. Wilcox
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