Friday, 29 November 2019

I Really Don't Like To Say 'I'M SORRY'


I really don't like to say I'm sorry.😏
Please wait! Before you judge me, read to the end.

I'm sorry is just three words coined into two words. Is it really a big deal to say it when I'm wrong? No, not at all. But must I say it? No too. It's my choice to or not to. Must I justify why I shouldn't say it? Not really, but I will, to you.

'I'm sorry' you will agree can be one of the shortest but most difficult words for some people to say, especially when they are wrong. Why wouldn't they honestly say sorry when they are at fault? I believe ego and pride, but you might have another or other opinions.
However, there are some people that find it very easy to say it, but they never mean it. In my opinion, I think most times that this set of people are crafty and deceitful. That might not be the case too.

I started with "I don't like to say I'm sorry" and I'm sure your question is why?
It's simply because I always think that I can do the right thing and receive a thank you, a smile or a warm gaze or hug rather than weaken my chances of building trust. It doesn't mean I should or can be perfect o. It means I should discipline myself enough to always do what is right and keep to my words which inturn makes me a person of integrity.

Many times, we use the availability of the word 'I'm sorry' as a yardstick to not be accountable. Sometimes we are even genuine about it, but in our subconscious, we have created an excuse of 'I'm sorry'.

I want to keep this as short as possible and I can't explain everything, but I believe that if you read, reread and brood on this, you will have a deeper understanding of why I really don't like to say 'I'm sorry'.

My Thoughts.


ALA O. WILCOX



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4 comments:

  1. ?
    It's simply because I always think that I can do the right thing and receive a thank you, a smile or a warm gaze or........

    I disagree with you on this part 👆. Thinking alone that you can do the right thing always isn't good enough for thoughts.
    I would love to continue, but it'll take a 9pages write up to convince you.

    Cheers.

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    1. Yes o! It's okay to not agree, but you know I can't explain everything here? It will take too many pages.
      Please convince me in the WhatsApp. 😁

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